First contact with the cottage
Our contact with
the cottage began in August 1997. We had gone on a camping
holiday to Wexford, Ireland for a few days. The weather was hot
and we took advantage of the nearby sandy beaches which three
year old Sorcha enjoyed. Afterwards we travelled north to Keelogues
to stay with Imelda's family for the remaining days of our holiday,
before returning back to England. While we were there, we visited Imelda's
sister (jacinta) who lived in nearby Athlone.
The question was crystal clear. Did I want to go shopping with my wife, sister-in-law and
two small children, or did I want to go shopping alone? There was
nothing to think about, my choice had already been made before Imelda, my
wife, had finished the question. The thought of following two women making
judgmental decisions on every single item within a children's clothes shop,
while two small children demonstrated loudly to everyone within hearing distance,
with their "roller-coaster" emotions of want and boredom, was to be the
origin of our new life at Cherry Tree Farm. A few hurried words of
when and where we would meet, was quickly followed by the two parties wandering
off in different directions.
Athlone, in central Ireland, consisted mainly
of a high street and a new developing shopping mail. I needed nothing
particular and was quite content to observe the local Irish trinkets displayed
in the shop windows. I'll never know why I gazed into the Estate Agent's
window. The year before we had bought a new property in Kent, England
and we had both started new teaching jobs, so I can only conclude that
it was idol curiosity rather than any real desire for change that made
me scan the various house details. I was immediately attracted to
one advertisement. "Now
that's got potential !", I thought. Some moments passed by as an imaginary
country squire's life (similar to the British TV series, the "Irish RM"),
flashed into my mind. I eventually awoke from my visions, looked
at the card one more time then walked on to the next window display.
It was several hours later before
the next development took place. I was driving to my parent-in-laws
house near Keelogues, with a car laden with wife, sister-in-law, daughter
and nephew, when I spotted a village sign "Fuerty". Now I know that
name for some reason, I thought. A few moments later I remembered
where I had seen it. I began to tell the car occupants what I had remembered
of the cottage advertisement. I am sure it must be around here somewhere,
I concluded. However, a further couple of minutes driving had resulted
in us leaving the village with no viewing of any cottage for sale. A
few, further minutes later and we had almost forgotten about it, when from
around a bend we received our first view of Cherry Tree Cottage. "That
must be it !", I exclaimed, pointing in the direction of a white cottage
with several "For Sale" sign posts scattered around it. "Lets have
a quick look I said and before there were any objections the car was already
turning into the small road adjacent to the cottage. A padlock gate
meant that the car had to be parked outside of the entrance. We all
trooped out and leaned over the gate.
The late evening sunshine reflected magnificently
from the white coloured cottage, which was flanked by a white painted outbuilding
beside it. A quick hop over a wall and soon children were playing
in an open space in front of the cottage, while the adults peered through
cottage windows. "It looks quite quaint inside", I said. "Maybe
we can ring the Estate Agent in the morning and have a tour inside", replied
Imelda. "Well, we got nothing to do in the next few days and I am curious
about how it looks inside", I replied. The evening sunshine was quickly
being replaced by dusk and we returned back to the car. The car journey
continued and the previous talk of baby clothes and family matters were
replaced by the first impressions of the cottage. Imelda was viewing
it as an interesting curiosity, however, my mind was considering it more
seriously. Fate was resting on tomorrow's viewing. Nothing would
happen if Imelda hated it! Time to show restraint and a slight indifference.
Best practice with women!
An early morning phone call had arranged a viewing
with the Estate Agent for 11.00 o'clock that morning. It was to be
my first introduction to "Irish time". Irish time is different to normal
time, in the fact that there is always an explicit time delay. A 9.00
o'clock meeting is understood to be 9.30 or even 10.00 o'clock. Today
means tomorrow and tomorrow could mean next week. Once you have understood
the principles of Irish time, then you simply make what you consider are
the appropriate adjustments and both parties eventually meet up. So
it was to be that our first official viewing with the Estate Agent took
place at noon.
(To be continued at a later date ...)